And then she did NOT want to get out of the car. We finally got over to where the kids were all lining up and parents were waving, everyone smiling. And Hallie's feet were cemented to the ground. And the tears started. I think the whole time she imagined school it was getting to be with Aubrie and Robbie all together school. And when it was time for her to leave Blake and I and walk in to this foreign place with foreign people she was not having it. So, as she is sobbing, I asked her teacher Mrs. Fournier if we could walk to the classroom with her and the thought crossed my mind to just let them grab her and I would leave and then eventually she'd stop crying and then I thought of my mother in law's method with Leah to just wait patiently until they were READY to go in to their class. That seemed like a better idea and less traumatizing. So I told her teacher what we were doing and we sat out in the lobby for 30 minutes while Blake is now crying because he CAN'T go into kindergarten. WE had made a courage chart a few weeks ago to put stickers onto and we talked about that, about being a good example for Blake of how to "go to kindergarten, we talked about all the things they were going to do. And then after 30 minutes one of her teachers Mrs. P came out and told Hallie she was missing the Hokie Pokie and that she really needed to come in because the first day is a play day and they were going to just play play play all day and that she would sit by her and be by her all day if that is what Hallie wanted. And she gave me a hug and shyly took Mrs. P's hand and went in.
And she came home happy and bubbling over with all the "playing" she did.
And then the second day repeated the first except it was only 10-15 minutes of sitting in the lobby.
And then today, I still had to walk her in, but she went in after only 2 minutes because Mrs. P told her she was about to miss the Hokie Pokie again and she really liked that Hokie Pokie the first two days--so after a hug for Blake and I, she went in. And today she told me she feels comfortable there and that she got to play kitchen and go play with her new friend Mia on the playground. I finally snapped a hurried, blurried shot of her as she walked in with Mrs. P today.
We'll see what tomorrow brings.















